Become an Oblate | Benet Hill Monastery (2024)

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Oblate = Offering

Oblates of St. Benedict offer themselves for service to God and others. By integrating prayer and work, they manifest Christ’s presence in the world through their own families, friends, and work relationships. The oblates also form a community among themselves and the sisters.

Benedictine Oblates do not take vows and usually do not live at Benet Hill. They do make promises to seek God more intensely through the Rule of St. Benedict in partnership with their Benedictine community in conjunction with their day-to-day lives.

"Being an Oblate is something deeper than being drawn to Benedictine spirituality. It is learning to love Benedictine spirituality in community, this community of Benet Hill Monastery. The sisters share how to live it, the blessings and challenges, every day."

– Jesse, OblSB

What is an Oblate?

Oblates are adults who desire to seek God by living in harmony with the spirit of Saint Benedict as revealed in the Rule of St. Benedict and its contemporary expressions.

Why become an oblate?

Individuals and couples who have a strong desire to find God and participate in a community grounded in love may wish to take this step. Oblates associate themselves with a particular Benedictine monastery so that they may share in the spiritual life, prayers and works of the community. By embracing the Benedictine way of life, they strive to live full lives by efforts to understand Christ’s teaching in the Scriptures.

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Who is an Oblate?

People like the ones pictured here on July 9, 2023 - newly professed oblates and oblate novices.

The Oblate Advisory & Action Team (OAAT) leads the program with the able assistant of Sister Clare Carr, OSB.

The process takes about a year through an intentional course of study, usually from July to July. Classes meet monthly, either online or in person.

No! Many of our oblates live in other cities, states, and even other countries.

Reach out and contact us through the information below. We’ll be happy to talk with you!

Benet Hill Oblates are involved in their own communities and at the monastery in acts of service as volunteers. The options are truly endless. Oblates also participate in Covenant Groups with the Sisters.

Covenant groups of sisters and oblates form around a common interest. Currently, there are three very active groups: Care of the Earth, Benedictine Spirituality and Ongoing Education, and Denver Oblates Ongoing Formation.

Featured Oblate

Dr. Ellen Haroutunian, PhD, ObISB

“I began to learn about Benedictine spirituality and oblates in the mid 1990’s. I was so drawn to the monastic way that I asked God if I could become an oblate though I had no idea how that would happen!Years later when I trained as a spiritual director with Benet Hill, the possibility of becoming an oblate opened up to me. God did not forget my desire!

My practice as a spiritual director has allowed me to bear witness to the spiritual journeys of many younger folks who are struggling with the big problems of faith in our nation, yet who are very drawn to a contemplative way of seeking God. Amidst this very secular and cynical world, they see real hope in Benedictine spirituality which is a path of deep conversion, of becoming like Christ and being transformed by a community of love.

In the presence of the Sisters, I experience not only a loving welcome, but a deep sense of inner stillness and peace that is surely the fruit of walking in the Benedict way—which is the way of Christ—for so long. In them I see the fruits of their many decades of faithfulness in the Liturgy of the Hours, Lectio Divina, and living as true community in obedience, humility, and stability. And they continue to invite us further in, to love and to serve and to assist them to carry the Benedictine way into the future.”

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"Benedict’s insistence that we welcome everyone as Christ was a life changing call for me. I believe it contributes to making peace in this fragmented world."

– Dr. Ellen Haroutunian, PhD, OblSB

Oblates in action

There are so many ways to support the mission of Benet Hill. Join the Care of Creation Covenant Group or the Laudato Si’ Action Platform. Take part in the Spiritual Formation Covenant Group. Serve on the Worship Liturgy Team or OAAT (Oblates Advisory and Action Team). The possibilities are practically endless, and your enthusiasm and ideas are welcome!

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Connect with us to learn more about what it means to become an Oblate and follow the Benedictine way.

Sister Clare Carr, OSB

  • 719-633-0655
  • sclare@benethillmonastery.org

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FAQs

How long does it take to become a Benedictine oblate? ›

The obligations do not bind under any pain of sin, for St. Benedict prefers that one serve God with love rather than with fear. After a year as an oblate novice, you may participate in a ceremony called the act of final oblation and become a permanent member of the monastic family.

Can Catholic oblates marry? ›

With the Rule of Benedict as their guide, oblates engage in practices that are part of the very fabric of Christian spirituality, such as daily prayer and reflection and offering hospitality where they live and work. Christians of all faith denominations may become oblates and may be married or single.

What is the Rule of Benedict for the Oblates? ›

Oblates live the Gospel of Jesus as it is presented in the Rule of Benedict. Oblates strive to live a balanced life of prayer, work, study and holy leisure. while bringing Christ and the spirit of monasticism into their families, places of work, and in civic and social activities.

What are the promises of the Benedictine oblate? ›

The vows are Stability, Conversion of Life, and Obedience. An Oblate's life should mirror the values and life-style contained in these nuggets or distillations of a monk's life.

Do Oblates take vows? ›

Oblates do not take on a new set of religious practices and are not required to say a certain number of prayers or engage in special devotions. They do not live in a religious community or take vows.

What do Oblates wear? ›

Oblates are clothed in the Cassock and Belt of the Oblate Habit and given a Benedictine Medal. (The full Oblate Habit differs from that of the Brothers in not having a hood on the scapular- a specifically male monastic part of the Benedictine habit.)

Can a woman be an oblate? ›

Oblates are lay women and men who have chosen to integrate their prayer, work and family life with their Christian journey according to the principles established by St. Benedict some 1500 years ago.

What is the life of an oblate? ›

Benedictine Oblate life is primarily a spiritual life. The key to this life is found in the Rule of St. Benedict: "That God may be glorified in all things" (RB 57:9). For the oblate, "all things" encompasses prayer, work, studies, church, recreation, family, friends and even enemies.

What is a novice oblate? ›

Oblate Novice: The Oblate Novice attends meetings with the Oblates for ten months. At the end of that time, the Novice may ask the Abbot and Council (in writing) to make his or her Oblation. Observers and Oblate Novices are expected to follow in their personal lives the general guidelines provided for Oblates.

What are the 5 rules of St. Benedict? ›

The Rule revolves around five practices: ​Prayer, Work, Study, Hospitality and Renewal. ​Prayer is the foundation to the monastic life and calling, and can be a constant part of the life of non-monastics as well.

What are the three vows of the Benedictine rule? ›

Benedictines take three vows: stability, fidelity to the monastic way of life, and obedience. Though promises of poverty and chastity are implied in the Benedictine way, stability, fidelity, and obedience receive primary attention in the Rule-perhaps because of their close relationship with community life.

Why become a Benedictine oblate? ›

Oblates desire to live as a monk in the world, seeking God by striving to become holy in their everyday life, in their family, and in their workplace. Oblates are associated with a monastic community, offering their lives to God through prayer and service.

What should we value as Oblates? ›

We value: Human Dignity – Oblates walk with people, recognising and celebrating the God-given dignity of each, especially those who are poor or in any need. We commit to ongoing listening and dialogue with them. Evangelisation – Oblates proclaim the Good News of Jesus Christ to all, renewing them through its influence.

How to become an oblate of St. Benedict? ›

You become an oblate by taking promises, akin to the vows outlined by St. Benedict in his Rule: obedience, stability, and conversion of life. These promises–taken initially for a year as an oblate novice before taking them permanently–do not bind under pain of sin.

What does it mean to be an oblate? ›

ob·​late ˈä-ˌblāt. 1. : a layman living in a monastery under a modified rule and without vows. 2. : a member of one of several Roman Catholic communities of men or women.

What is the life of a Benedictine oblate? ›

Benedictine Oblate life is primarily a spiritual life. The key to this life is found in the Rule of St. Benedict: "That God may be glorified in all things" (RB 57:9). For the oblate, "all things" encompasses prayer, work, studies, church, recreation, family, friends and even enemies.

How long does it take to become a Benedictine nun? ›

The sister in First Monastic Profession commits herself to live the Benedictine life more fully and further her understanding of it. She continues her formation program of study and reflection while engaging in an assigned ministry. The duration of First Monastic Profession is three to six years.

What is a Benedictine Oblate Novice? ›

Becoming an Oblate

Benedict, candidates are enrolled as oblate novices for a year. After the year of probation, they may then make their final oblation. Oblates do not take vows, but they promise to be guided by the Rule of St. Benedict, in so far as their state in life permits.

How many Benedictine oblates are there? ›

There are an estimated 25,000 Benedictine oblates in the world today.

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